Jesus said that to divorce and remarry was committing adultery. Now I have said all along that the church was well within its rights to refuse to conduct the funeral because the central figure was a homosexual. If it’s all about the sin, then I’m merely pointing out that if the church wants to use as it’s excuse the fact that they didn’t want to promote a sinful lifestyle then they should use the same standards if asked to perform a funeral for someone who was divorced and remarried. But I suspect that it was all about the fact that he was a homosexual.
Maybe I'm not reading you correctly but you don't seem to recognize the very real possibility of forgiveness. That is, committing the sin of: