If what you is true -- and I'm not doubting your truthfulness -- then the church was right to call off the funeral. However, Fox's article states this:The church's pastor, the Rev. Gary Simons, said no one knew Sinclair, who was not a church member, was gay until the day before the Thursday service, when staff members putting together his video tribute saw pictures of men "engaging in clear affection, kissing and embracing."However, if Fox's version of the events are true, then the church should have just left those parts out of the tribute video and continued with the service.