Had I been Mr. Sinclair's family, the food would have gone to the nearest homeless shelter and the video would have gone directly into the dumpster.
As would be your right. But apparently a Church does not have a right to behavior that you disagree with.
Would you force a Church to hold a service for an acknowledged and proud drunkard? Would the Church have no recourse but to hold the service when it was revealed that a video showing his prodigious drinking skills would be shown at the funeral?
Why must the Church give up it's own values when confronted?
Why can't it make a stand and say, "No, not in our sanctuary. We won't allow a celebration of sin to take place where we meet to go into the presence of God in our time of communal worship."
Once again I find proof that those who scream "Tolerance!" the loudest are those who will not tolerate those who disagree with them.