It was not a date rape - find the original statement from Police Chief Tim Longo. It was a stranger rape. But really, what is the difference? Rape is rape. He was a stranger. He stalked me for nine years with the help of the University of Virginia. I wish the media would get the facts straight.
And of course, I am frightened by this narcisstic sociopath. He did, after all, write the letter to my HOME. We’ve already moved. Yes, this “CRAP” you say about looking over my should is indeed the case.
So, I should “stay out of it?” That’s impossible to do when you must testify, etc. in order to help people like you to understand the horror of rape. Please don’t blame the victim.
I don’t think i blame the victim, and if you are really her, then I was wrong about the facts, or lack of facts, that I thought I understood.
I’m not against him being incarcerated. I just wasn’t sure about the victim having a say, or this much say, about the sentence itself. Not that I think the victim should remain silent at the board hearing either.
In fact, much of my thoughts on this are still undecided, and apparently I was wrong about the case itself as well.
Actually, this whole thing is so alien to me that it’s hard for me to even comprehend all this. and thank God it is. I wish this sort of experience was alien to everyone.
I’m curious about this stalking and looking over your shoulder. I was under the impression that the reports said you saw him last when he delivered a pizza to your sorority and that you had’t seen or talked to him since then. I think it was reported also that he tried to write you once or twice before this time but the letters never arrived or something. Are these reports incorrect?
The emails that were part of the Dateline show, did the piece say you were the one who emailed him first? Were there not a number of emails between both of you? I must ask, if you are saying you moved because of this guy, where is the stalking you mention and why would you give him more information about yourself if you were worried he would come to where you live? That doesn’t seem very careful.