I am a product of a white father and black mother. There are couples like that out there. You just have to look hard to find them.
Anyway, the problem is that most men view black women a tad bit aggressive and thus not "feminine" enough.
I don’t mean to be personal but was your dad Jewish?
they seemed to be more likely for that in my day...back when this was far more controversial
there is a sorta PC book out now called Color of Water about a marriage from my homestate like this...it’s pretty complex
my daughter on my homepage is one of two from my marriage to a Brasilian of lebanese maronite extraction....they have a glimpse into this...at least culturally....most folks think they are latino ...lol...my portugese is better than their’s
in reality most black women would do well with white men...jmo
another trend I have seen lately are black lesbians really coming out and grouping.....at least here in Nashville
do you consider yourself of which culture or both?
i know a kid like you here...a handsome boy with dreads who acts very white and I know others who act not so white...slang and speech patterns etc.
is it class or environment?