First off, whatever hang-ups you have you should seek counseling for, secondly, all of these boys and girls are acquainted with each other. There is no “strange man” aspect to this so stop ranting about how you would be mortally wounded should a strange man ever attempt to touch your backside, it has about as much bearing on this case as the price of tea in China. So nice of you to label the kid as a “pervert” at age 13. I really should stop feeding the trolls.
You really should.