You mean like the affair he had while I was pregnant with her. I was pregnant (early) with my last child when all of this came down. I waited until the baby was born, and 6 weeks later I went back to work and filed for divorce. he was stupid enough to think I had mellowed on the issue. And refused to leave until I hit him with a tea kettle. ( and he heard my brother was on his way from SF).
Well that clarifies your story for me.