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Duped 'dad' out of luck, court says;He can't recoup support
The Star Ledger ^ | July 18, 2007 | MARGARET McHUGH

Posted on 07/18/2007 11:46:12 AM PDT by Eric Blair 2084

A former Morris County man who learned 30 years after his son was born that the child was not his cannot recoup $110,000 spent in child support from the biological father, the New Jersey Supreme Court ruled yesterday.

The 7-0 decision overturned an appellate court ruling in 2005 and found there is no exception in the New Jersey Parentage Act to extend the deadline in a paternity case beyond the child's 23rd birthday.

"The Legislature evidently knew what has been known since time immemorial -- that children would be born of adulterous relationships and that the true identity of the father might not be known for more than 23 years," Justice Barry T. Albin wrote.

The 28-page ruling lets the biological father, who had been a close family friend and the child's godfather, off the hook for the cost of raising him. Albin noted the biological father had not engaged in "overt trickery" and at worst simply kept quiet about the possibility he fathered the child.

"The decision makes clear the paramour has no duty to intrude into the family relationship," said Melvyn Bergstein, the biological father's attorney. "It says if you don't say anything, we're not going to sock it to you after the statute of limitations runs out."

(Excerpt) Read more at nj.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events; US: New Jersey
KEYWORDS: childsupport; custody; statesupremecourt
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Not sure if this is the definition of Front Page News, but it was on the front page of NJ's largest paper.
1 posted on 07/18/2007 11:46:14 AM PDT by Eric Blair 2084
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To: Eric Blair 2084

It must be hard for the child to find out that his mother is a whore.


2 posted on 07/18/2007 11:48:32 AM PDT by wideawake
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To: Eric Blair 2084

Not right, not right at all.


3 posted on 07/18/2007 11:49:18 AM PDT by netmilsmom (To attack one section of Christianity in this day and age, is to waste time.)
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To: Eric Blair 2084
The 28-page ruling lets the biological father, who had been a close family friend and the child's godfather, off the hook for the cost of raising him. Albin noted the biological father had not engaged in "overt trickery" and at worst simply kept quiet about the possibility he fathered the child.

Oh, yeah, no overt trickery involved here, simply don't tell and you can get away with screwing someone over and never have to pay a dime for raising your child./SAR Our courts are truely unbelievable when it comes to paternity suits.

4 posted on 07/18/2007 11:50:53 AM PDT by calex59
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To: Eric Blair 2084

Perhaps this is an issue of widespread concern in New Jersey.


5 posted on 07/18/2007 11:51:09 AM PDT by 3AngelaD (They screwed up their own countries so bad they had to leave, and now they're here screwing up ours)
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To: Eric Blair 2084

How about being able to declare this as a long term capital loss on your income taxes. That would be fair.


6 posted on 07/18/2007 11:51:31 AM PDT by timydnuc (I'll die on my feet before I'll live on my knees.)
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To: wideawake

Maybe she was raped, or taken advantage of when incapacitated, etc.


7 posted on 07/18/2007 11:51:59 AM PDT by stuartcr (Everything happens as God wants it to.....otherwise, things would be different.)
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To: Eric Blair 2084

He’s a man, so he’s screwed.


8 posted on 07/18/2007 11:52:29 AM PDT by ozzymandus
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To: Eric Blair 2084

Now here is the interesting part, who estate does the child inherit?

Seems to me the duped man’s estate has no claim for the child to have.

The sex partner on the other hand....


10 posted on 07/18/2007 11:52:56 AM PDT by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.gov and http://www.house.gov)
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To: Eric Blair 2084

How about going after the woman for fraud?


11 posted on 07/18/2007 11:53:01 AM PDT by Clam Digger
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To: stuartcr
Maybe she was raped, or taken advantage of when incapacitated, etc

With the statement below from the article I highly doubt she was tricked, raped or drugged.

The 28-page ruling lets the biological father, who had been a close family friend and the child's godfather

13 posted on 07/18/2007 11:54:23 AM PDT by calex59
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To: Eric Blair 2084

I’d be tempted to go Jon Lovitz on the guy, just for general principles. Tempted, but I wouldn’t do it.


14 posted on 07/18/2007 11:55:05 AM PDT by NonValueAdded (Brian J. Marotta, 68-69TonkinGulfYachtClub, (1948-2007) Rest In Peace, our FRiend)
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To: wideawake

And that your real father is an adultering slime.


15 posted on 07/18/2007 11:55:27 AM PDT by Anonymous Rex ( For Rent)
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To: calex59

I think the legal issue was the 23 year statute of limitations. It seems that if you find out after ten years that the mother should be a guest on Maury Povich or Jerry Springer and lied to you about paternity, you CAN in fact get a refund.


16 posted on 07/18/2007 11:55:34 AM PDT by Eric Blair 2084 (Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms shouldn't be a federal agency...it should be a convenience store.)
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To: stuartcr
The article specifically says that she had an affair. References are also made to the biological father being her "paramour" and to "adulterous relationships."
17 posted on 07/18/2007 11:57:54 AM PDT by wideawake
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Wait, does this imply that if he had found out when the child was under 23, he’d have legal standing and could go after the biological father and/or mother for repayment?


18 posted on 07/18/2007 11:58:23 AM PDT by AbeKrieger (1) Border security first. 2) Repeat until #1 complete, then resume discussion.)
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To: Eric Blair 2084

The way I read it, it did not decided on weather it was the boys father or not but that the time limit of 23 years had passed and the limitation statute took over.


19 posted on 07/18/2007 11:59:41 AM PDT by edcoil (Reality doesn't say much - doesn't need too)
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To: calex59
Am I the only one who remembers the old Laugh In skit of the family with a brunette father and mother, six red-headed kids and the red-headed best friend of the father?/p>
20 posted on 07/18/2007 12:01:12 PM PDT by 3AngelaD (They screwed up their own countries so bad they had to leave, and now they're here screwing up ours)
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