Simple:
1. Don't make babies
2. Man + Woman = Marriage
3. Man works at job, woman working optional
3. Now have babies
For every ten black families I deal with, perhaps one has a father in the house.
The other nine have an uncle in the house.Uncle Sam.and on the first day of each months he sends at least one check "home" to support his "nieces and nephews".
Of course, there are quite a few also who are of the mindset that they are due, and deserve more (money, authority, etc.) without having earned it.