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To: 2harddrive

It mentioned another guy who found out he was not the father of a young girl (12 years old) I don’t blame him for stopping support, but that man cut that child out of his life. Wow, that was cold. She also though of him as daddy. and now she has none. Yes, i know it’s the mother’s fault, but it’s the child who is hurting. I say he never loved her if he could just cut her off like that.
What are adopted children ... chopped liver???


8 posted on 07/13/2007 6:11:21 AM PDT by Shimmer128 (A man has only 1 escape from his old self: to see a different self in the mirror of his woman's eyes)
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To: Shimmer128

Perhaps the mother was a real b!tch. I say that as a mother myself, though not as a b!tch. Any woman who passes off a child to the wrong father has some problems to begin with.


11 posted on 07/13/2007 6:15:56 AM PDT by tioga (I'll take Duncan Hunter or Fred Thompson for President. Pick one.)
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To: Shimmer128
"What are adopted children ... chopped liver???"

I think that's a different situation. You know the big picture entering the adoption agreement.

13 posted on 07/13/2007 6:18:33 AM PDT by tfecw (It's for the children)
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To: Shimmer128
“and now she has none”

Hold it....there is a father out there someplace....let the mother identify the man, and have him pay the price....

15 posted on 07/13/2007 6:20:54 AM PDT by thinking
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To: Shimmer128

I agree. That father is a POS for cutting of his relationship with the girl. He “had” to do it, he says.


20 posted on 07/13/2007 6:28:02 AM PDT by drb9
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To: Shimmer128

I thought that too — very very cold.


23 posted on 07/13/2007 6:45:47 AM PDT by bboop (Stealth Tutor)
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To: Shimmer128

I agree. Two very different situations are described in this article. It’s outrageous that Mr. Rodriguez has to pay anything at all. The second guy was apparently married to the girl’s mother and the child knew him from birth as her father. Maybe he should be able to sue the biological dad and recover what he paid, but to cut the girl out of his life is cold, cold, cold.


33 posted on 07/13/2007 7:01:37 AM PDT by joylyn
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To: Shimmer128
Wow, that was cold.

What you're describing is a different situation. What you're talking about is a situation where the man was her father, even if she wasn't his 'biological' daughter. If you willingly assume the role of parent that makes things different than if an ex is trying to hang a support payment on you for a child that's not yours that you don't have a relationship with.
34 posted on 07/13/2007 7:02:22 AM PDT by JamesP81 (Keep your friends close; keep your enemies at optimal engagement range)
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To: Shimmer128
As “El Rushbo” said, “Words have meanings.”

The terms ‘bastard’ and ‘slut’ were part of our language long before ‘single parent’ was made the PCSpeak mandated substitute for ‘slut’.

PS A child of a ‘single parent’ is still a ‘bastard’ regardless of what anyone says.

Yes, those terms are both pejorative and derogatory - but accurate. Most important of all, they were effective at reducing the number of bastards.

52 posted on 07/13/2007 8:04:12 AM PDT by GladesGuru (In a society predicated upon freedom, it is essential to examine principle)
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To: Shimmer128

nothin personal here...

Been watching these types of threads for a while.
Predicatably, it only takes about ten posts for the “feelings” post to pop up. Congratulations, you’re number 8.

The guy was a victim of FRAUD. To the tune of EIGHTY THOUSAND DOLLARS...all of which the court has just said; “too bad, so sad...no refund...no crimminal charges for the crimminal mother either!”.

Hopefully, the little girl learned a HUGE lesson about ethics from ho-mommy and won’t make the same mistake. Absolutely no reason on earth why that man should be liable, or be compelled to guilt for waliking away!

p.s. I am adopted. My adoptive parents knew that I wasn’t theirs and they CHOSE me. I was not a fraudulent scam perpetrated upon them by some crimminal (who now has complete amnesty from her crime!) grifter seeking to cover up her infidelity and promescuity by stealing from others.


81 posted on 07/13/2007 1:35:17 PM PDT by woollyone (whyquit.com ...if you think you can't quit, your simply not informed.)
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