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Coach Dad was rarely home because of his heavy practice and game schedule. Son became alienated at a very early age, is more sensitive and stubborn than sis and began to identify with his mother. He seeks men to fill the void felt from the missing father/son void.
Sister is just a tad smarter and more compliant than her brother and recognized early that the best way to get and keep daddy’s attention was to emulate him by playing sports.
Wonder what type of interactions Uncle Gay had with them when they were young?
I am zipping my mouth here. As a fairly new member, I don’t want to get in trouble for posting my immediate reaction to your reply.