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The Six Stages of E-Mail
NY Times ^ | July 1, 2007 | NORA EPHRON

Posted on 07/03/2007 8:45:42 AM PDT by neverdem

Stage One: Infatuation

I just got e-mail! I can’t believe it! It’s so great! Here’s my handle. Write me! Who said letter writing was dead? Were they ever wrong! I’m writing letters like crazy for the first time in years. I come home and ignore all my loved ones and go straight to the computer to make contact with total strangers. And how great is AOL? It’s so easy. It’s so friendly. It’s a community. Wheeeee! I’ve got mail!

Stage Two: Clarification

O.K., I’m starting to understand — e-mail isn’t letter-writing at all, it’s something else entirely. It was just invented, it was just born and overnight it turns out to have a form and a set of rules and a language all its own. Not since the printing press. Not since television. It’s revolutionary. It’s life-altering. It’s shorthand. Cut to the chase. Get to the point.

And it saves so much time. It takes five seconds to accomplish in an e-mail message something that takes five minutes on the telephone. The phone requires you to converse, to say things like hello and goodbye, to pretend to some semblance of interest in the person on the other end of the line. Worst of all, the phone occasionally forces you to make actual plans with the people you talk to — to suggest lunch or dinner — even if you have no desire whatsoever to see them. No danger of that with e-mail.

E-mail is a whole new way of being friends with people: intimate but not, chatty but not, communicative but not; in short, friends but not. What a breakthrough. How did we ever live without it? I have more to say on this subject, but I have to answer an Instant Message from someone I almost know.

Stage Three...

(Excerpt) Read more at nytimes.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: computers; electronicmail; email; ephron; internet

1 posted on 07/03/2007 8:45:45 AM PDT by neverdem
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To: neverdem

Boy Nora, you may be a well known writer but STFU about email. I’m sure most of your buddies just filter you spewings into the trash anyway.


2 posted on 07/03/2007 8:49:03 AM PDT by pikachu (Be alert -- we need more lerts!)
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To: neverdem

Would someone please tell that woman about spam filters?


3 posted on 07/03/2007 8:49:03 AM PDT by 3AngelaD (They screwed up their own countries so bad they had to leave, and now they're here screwing up ours)
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To: neverdem
Stage Three: Confusion

I have done nothing to deserve any of this:

The Democratic National Committee needs you.

A message from Hillary Clinton.

LOL!

4 posted on 07/03/2007 8:49:28 AM PDT by rabscuttle385 (Sic Semper Tyrannis * U.Va. Engineering '09 * Friends Don't Let Friends Vote Democrat * Fred in 2008)
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To: neverdem

Didn’t this dope, ex-wife of Carl Bernstein, write the movie “You’ve Got Mail”??


5 posted on 07/03/2007 8:50:42 AM PDT by Suzy Quzy
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To: neverdem
I talk on the phone to my friends and family and also email them..I have met some really fine people on this Internet and some really weird ones..One thing that email can help with is to block someone so they can’t write any more that is if you don’t want them to do so..Regular mail you have to change your addressby moving and telephone you have to change that number which cost each time you do it..With email you have Spam guard and blocker what more could you want..LOL!
6 posted on 07/03/2007 8:58:19 AM PDT by Willow25
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To: Suzy Quzy
You're right in that she wrote the screenplay based on someone else's stage play (she also directed the film, apparently).

You're also correct that she is a dope!

7 posted on 07/03/2007 9:13:10 AM PDT by Sicon
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I’m a writer — imagine how many unanswered messages I would have if I had a real job.

LOL

8 posted on 07/03/2007 9:18:16 AM PDT by Half Vast Conspiracy (To make a conservative angry, lie to them. To make a liberal angry, tell them the truth.)
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To: Willow25
I would hate to be without email. I actually use it for worthwhile things.

You can email a question to a business that will answer when they get time. On the phone they may just blow you off because they are busy.

How many political junkies wrote their elected Representatives as much before email?

What kills me is some of the guys at my sportsman's club are always looking for information on things, but when you tell them you’ll look it up and email it to them they say they never read their email.

That always solves the mystery of why they are so ignorant of everything.

9 posted on 07/03/2007 9:31:33 AM PDT by Beagle8U (FreeRepublic -- One stop shopping ....... Its the Conservative Super Walmart for news .)
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To: Willow25

“With email you have Spam guard and blocker what more could you want..LOL!”

Spell check? Cut/paste? Hotlinks?...


10 posted on 07/03/2007 9:34:34 AM PDT by Beagle8U (FreeRepublic -- One stop shopping ....... Its the Conservative Super Walmart for news .)
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To: neverdem

Email is great after all your friends get over the idea that anyone actually reads all those bad jokes they send.

Delete is your friend.


11 posted on 07/03/2007 9:35:15 AM PDT by sgtbono2002 (http://www.imwithfred.com/index.aspx)
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To: neverdem

Lame attempt to emulate Larry Miller’s “Five Stages of Drinking.”


12 posted on 07/03/2007 9:36:57 AM PDT by dfwgator (The University of Florida - Still Championship U)
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To: dfwgator

“Six if you live in a trailer park.”

Larry is funny.


13 posted on 07/03/2007 10:19:15 AM PDT by Cecily
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To: Cecily
Larry is funny.

And conservative.

14 posted on 07/03/2007 10:20:07 AM PDT by dfwgator (The University of Florida - Still Championship U)
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To: neverdem
Direct excerpt/quote from later in the article...

Add three inches to the length of your penis. The Democratic National Committee needs you.

LOL! Interesting that she decided to put that together in that order. Another confirmation of Ann Coulter's claim that she has bigger balls than most liberal men, affirmed inadvertently by the NY Slimes.

15 posted on 07/03/2007 12:24:27 PM PDT by MCH
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To: neverdem
Stage Six: Death

Call me.

LOL (snicker)

16 posted on 07/03/2007 12:28:55 PM PDT by NathanR (Apr?s moi, le deluge.)
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To: Beagle8U

You are right!I just find it faster and easier to contact people by email..Don’t have to wait to get the answer,wait very long anyway..


17 posted on 07/03/2007 1:26:59 PM PDT by Willow25
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