I agree the reasoning you attack is not very good. Folks often see the hand of providence randomly.
But in response to what I think was the thrust of your post, if there is a God and those are His rules, what you think about it and whether it makes you spit doesn't really make much of a difference. That's the difference between God and man.
This is just a passionate version of the: "I could never accept a God who . . ." argument. If there is a God, it really doesn't matter whether you accept Him or not. Whether He accepts you is much more to the point.
Of course, if you are right and there is no God, I guess you win the best, correct, angry athiest of the day award. Not worth much. Because if there's no God, there is no meaning and no reason to choose one course of action over another aside from how you feel. ANY decision you make is as good as any other. If there is no personal God, Camus and the existentialists were right. We are Sysiphus carrying rocks up the hill, only to have them roll down again so we can carry them up again. So even if you are right, my FRiend, being an angry athiest spitting in God's eye is an utterly empty gesture, no more or less meaningful than blowing up the WTC. There's no reason to do, or not to do, either of them.
I'm a recovered angry athiest. Every word you write is something I could have written. But I assure you, He's out there knocking. All you have to do is open the door. Just because some of his followers get overzealous in thinking they understand His will doesn't change that one little bit.
Don’t just guess, go back and read what he said, and think about it. Then come back and talk to us.
You missed several things he said, or ignored them. One of those is that people have free will, and can choose to do evil. Or to do good. He seems, to me, to be asking us to choose to do good. There is a way to fight radical Islam without oppressing moderate Islam. We have to find out what it is, and do it. It won’t be easy, but it needs to be done.
Nowhere, btw, did he say your cousin or any of the others deserved to die. That is the Westboro Baptist attitude. I’ll join you in spitting in their direction.
You try resoning or co existing with them.