And I bet you and your wife have a good relationship with her dad.
I looked at how my boyfriends treated my family and considered it when deciding to go further.
he passed away in 2000 at 84 years old. i still miss his gruff manner and his cowboy hat. (he raised horses and farmed) once his jackass hee-hawed in a distant field and he told me to keep my cousin quiet. (i was never good enough for his daughter because he thought that both of his daughters were the most beautiful in the world; i thought only one of them had that distinct quality.)
he kept his distance and never got too close but that was o.k. i only loved his daughter, not him.
he will be missed.
It’s also good to look at how the boy (or girl) treats their own family members.