I have never seen any evidence that being gay or straight is a choice. If I did it would make it a lot easier for me to argue against all this "gay rights" crap.
Essentialism is Lambda Legal's ticket to the Supreme Court decree they want outlawing religious censure (if orientation is "essential" then homosexuality = melanin), but they haven't yet got all the Queer Theory enthusiasts on board, who are laying down a 180-degree opposite line on sexuality.
The players need to get on the same page, or someone's liable to point out the cognitive dissonance at an awkward juncture -- say, during oral argument before the Supreme Court.
“Feminism Made Me A Lesbian.”
course, it’s not proof....