You'd hate being around us.
Maybe, maybe not. And don't know how 198 generated this response. I'm a combat vet from a older war. Funny, I recall at the time joking about all kinds of stuff, lots of good laughs etc... But I never recall making the kinds of jokes you're referring to. I never found getting shot at fun, or humorous. Years later, I just do my best just to try and forget it. Maybe it's a generational thing.
Best of luck to you, and have a happy 4th.
We don't think gettng shot at and mortared is funny. We make jokes about it to relieve the tension. Gallows humore has been around for ages and is touted by many experts as being a healthy way of dealing with a stressful situation.
It certainly has its benefits.
Having a "sick" sense of humor is an asset here.
Thank you for your service.