No, it doesn’t mean that at all. It doesn’t mean they knew him, investigated him, or even knew he was in the room. It doesn’t mean that all male nurses are sexual predators. It doesn’t mean that you should avoid getting to know about the men and women who spend time alone with your children, and just arbitrarily eliminate the men. It doesn’t mean that you should deprive your children of medical attention unless and until all men have been forced out of the medical profession.
You need to learn about cause and effect, if it’s not too late for you. And it would probably be a good idea to see a therapist about your fixation.
BTW, I recommend you select a therapist based on qualifications, instead of gender. No sense doing even more damage.
MYTH: Children are usually molested by strangers.
FACT: 85% if children are molested by someone they know. The people most likely to molest children are those who have the most opportunity and access to them.
Approximately 1 out of 3 girls and 1 out of 5 boys will be sexually abused before the age of 18. Persons with developmental disabilities are sexually assaulted more frequently by a factor estimated between 4 and 10.
29% of offenders are relatives; 60% are acquaintances; and only 11% are strangers. It has been calculated that the chances of getting caught for child molestation are approximately 3%. Fewer than 1% of offenders are arrested, convicted and imprisoned.
http://www.hccac.org/abuse/myths.html