I agree with you that the determination as to whether or not to get the vaccine should be left to the parents and the physician, since the only person being put at risk by the lack of vaccination is the parents’ own child.
However, you did say that a woman could be vaccinated later if her husband “has a past.” That’s only true if she’s vaccinated prior to any sexual activity.
I would hope that my daughter gets to know the guy she's sleeping with well enough to know if she's going to need the vaccine before the act.