No, we go to the mat against tenets of it as public policy. But our votes, in the cold sinful Terra Firma, count no more at that standard than anyone elses.
You still love the sinner. Christianity is the only ethos that offers the blessings of forgiveness, whether it be Macro (I suck but, thanks to the blood of Christ, ain’t going to hell) or Micro (I forgive you and encourage you to sin no more). It’s damned powerful.
The bottom line is I’m against homosexuals raising children under ANY circumstances and I would hope you feel likewise.