LOL! What other foods and additives are you intolerant of, milady? You must learn to be tolerant of all foods, no matter how sick they make you. It's best that you consume lactose and try extremely hard not to show signs of sickness. You don't want to offend lactose, now do you? It's no different than any of the other foods or additives that you consume, Tamar. So stop making lactose feel bad and EMBRACE food multiculturalism!
I got sick off drinking too much vodka a while back, and immediately apologized to the bottle and ALL species of vodka the very next morning. Since then, vodka and I get along just fine. ;-D
