I am blessed and I am glad that you are too. God is never cruel. His Word tells us what happened and we did not evolve. We are as He made us. You will also find that His word tells us that the world is very ancient, not the few thousand years many churches teach. I agree with Him and science in that the world is millions or billions of years old. He tells us that in Gen. 1:1-2.
You cannot proof that. We do not know for sure his Word. The dudes that took down the Bible could have been wrong or devious or allegorical. Evolution is not anti-God. It could just as well be God's plan. Nobody knows for sure. There is nothing in evolution that deals with the spirit, just the body.