Sorry Dan and Mrs. Neil, but you most certainly DID do SOMETHING WRONG!!!
Intentionally killing your children, may to you, not be "wrong" however it is very, very wrong (and it's called murder even if lawyers in black robes say it's OK). God doesn't agree with them and He certainly doesn't consider you innocent.
Murder of one's own children, even for convenience, is a particularly heinous deed.
Having read only part of your article, I am praying to God, for all of your babies, the living and the dead.
If this is what they are willing to do publicly, to their own children for the sake of safety and convenience what would they be willing do to others for the same reasons?