[greyfoxx39]

DU, all I can say to this reply is that you are completely overlooking my point that these parents that are excluded are loving, feeling people, and what should be a joyful occasion for them is instead hearbreaking. I won’t even address that bunch of spin in your reply except, oooohh beware the dreaded feminist!

[Truth-Miner]

I wasn’t allowed to be at my 2 eldest daughters weddings. It had nothing to do with a temple. For the first the information about the wedding was purposefully withheld by my Ex. The other, they did it without telling anyone.

Sad yes. But I chose to take no offense cause it wouldn’t fix anything. It would’ve just made me bitter which in turn would have affected all involved. I got over it in a month or so.

[DelphiUser]

DU, all I can say to this reply is that you are completely overlooking my point that these parents that are excluded are loving, feeling people, and what should be a joyful occasion for them is instead hearbreaking.

I was indeed writing this from the perspective of the groom as I have not yet been to wedding of one of my children. However, If there is love, you can get past such disappointments and still remain civil, and even friends. Respect must be mutual, or you haven’t let your child grow up.

I won’t even address that bunch of spin in your reply except, oooohh beware the dreaded feminist!

You have it backwards, they have to beware of me. (Resisting telling stories….)