"I'm sorry, as everyone who knows me is aware, for losing my temper with my child. I have been driven to the edge by parental alienation for many years now."
Narcissist.
He made it clear by that message he is why he’s alienated from his child.
Why does he live all the way across the country from her? Please understand any FReeper here who is across the country from your child because you have no choice this is different. He has a choice. He chooses to live 3000 miles away.