No problem Mediation actually fixed a ton of problems between my ex and I. I saw that she too had a point of view and she saw mine. If you have a good mediator they do not take sides, just listen and get you to sort it out.
Strangely it works. As I’ve said in earlier post, it fixed a ton of stuff and everyone walked away...with money....and thinking they’d won something.
I personaly think, looking back., that the only thing we won was self-respect. I talked to my ex about 3 months ago and we where actually laughing and joking. It wasn’t until afterwards I thought of how hard that would have been ten years ago.
People forget that once you make a baby with someone you are tied to that person for life.
Even after the child is grown there could be a wedding to partake in grandchildren to share etc.