[fowb]

I am sick to death of hearing about “The healing process”. Why is it that these days any event more sever than a stubbed to requires grief counselors, anger counselors, etc to allow everyone affected to start healing. People used to be able to deal with things in their own way without outside assistance. They would grieve or not and move on with their lives as they chose. Now we have to have a million candles, cards, teddy bears, etc piled up at the location of an incident so that everyone can see how bad we feel about what happened. I guess I’m cynical, but it’s just so much BS to me.

[Prophet in the wilderness]

( I am sick to death of hearing about “The healing process” )
Yes, it is stupid.
The University President is not the one who the arbiter of when the healing begins, let the people, the victims be the one's who say that they are healing.
There really is no set point of when healing begins, that is God's prerogative to determine that.
And healing does not happen at the same time for all people.
Some people never heal, some heal in different ways and in different times.