Read their posts again. You mis-understood what was said. Neither tol nor n and v are nasty...nor were their posts.
I agree. Of course, that’s my impression from reading it and the post before it, that’s all.
I think it was nothing but a poor attempt at a (general, not “personal”) joke, badly timed.
But I could be wrong.
As the mother of four young adults in their 20's (two in college), I can assure you that they are still my babies, but not in any way, shape or form 'somewhat retarded.'
Forgive me if I misunderstood that null was being nice to tired of laundry and it just went over my head....
Thanks, but FWIW I can see how it could look personal and like an attack.