[thinking]

t’s not superfluous at all. Many of the folks posting here are at least incidentally harming a child, and see it as excusable because of misconduct of the child’s mother......

I think the proper approach would be to go after the real father...why should the mother protect the true father...the courts should order her to name the sperm donor, and have it confimed with DNA.....that is if she can identified him....

[HitmanLV]

No argument from me. I have explicitly said I don’t think the biodad should be completely off the hook. I never suggested otherwise.