Really? What would be worse? To get specific about it, she put herself above an oath she made to God, and lied about it.
Behavior is reality.
She lied about something in her relationship, but that doesn't mean she lied about everything to her husband. Nobody has been completely honest with their spouse at all times - does that make them all dishonest people, or does it make them people who have been dishonest? Clearly the latter, that's reality.