“And how do you think this will affect the child when he is 15 and learns not only that his mom committed adultery, but that this man he’s been calling Dad isn’t really his father?”
which brings up another good point. if the “dad” is bitter, what is to prevent him from telling the child immediately?
court order? they can’t put that cat back in the bag. . .
once the child knows and has been “harmed” - is there any more point to making the “dad” stick around ?
Exactly - the Mom made the decision to jeopardize the child when she snuck around behind her husband’s back.