Look, from the moment a woman puts her eyes on you, the clock is ticking. She is measuring you to find out how long it takes for you to either give her control, or take it from her.
I don't do relationships, and I keep my exposure to women to 6 hour intervals. Any more than that, and they start squirting illogical juice in your eyes, blinding you to what they are about to do to you if you don't get away quickly. I have discovered through trial and error, that it takes them 6 hours to formulate this juice, and cannot do it when you are outside their cone of influence.
The best operators, can even squirt that juice over telephone lines, but only on Thursdays and Fridays if they have not yet captured a victim for the weekend.
However, I will understand if your experiences have placed you in a position where you are unwilling to contemplate the reasonings behind the female mindset. Lord knows, I have been there Myself not too long ago.
Just keep Me in mind, mate. I am fairly certain that when I explain certain female mindsets (*winces, expecting a barrage from the female FReepers*) you will find a smile in there somewhere.
This is why I wanted to take this to the FReepmail section; I get flamed enough as it is.
But it is not all bad. I guarantee it mate. *smile*