I know what I want now is not even close to what I wanted in my misguided, naive 20s.
I don't pretend to understand women, but I am thankful that God created them for us. You guys who are taking your wives for granted might want to rethink your position. I loved my wife dearly and was totally lost when she passed away.
I've started dating again, and boy have the rules changed in the last forty years! I could also talk about "Missed Signals" - I'm totally clueless. As a matter of fact, I could probably write a pretty funny book about my dating experiences to date.
I have been pretty selective, and have found a wonderful widow that the Good Lord has been keeping for me. As soon as she'll have me, I'm going to get married again.
How lovely for you! And thank you for the message of not taking us wives for granted. Too bad hubby couldn’t read your message.
Yes, women are different today. And dating seems more like an ordeal than simply getting to know a person. I do find it interesting that many guys perceive a confident, attractive (and flirty) lady as a slut. Being those things is not an automatic tramp stamp. Just because I know what I want doesn't mean I want YOU! And for those who are (slutty)... you're ruining it for the rest of us!!! LOL.