It's much more simple. She is, in effect, murdering him.
And that's evil.
Unless she fears for her life at his hands, there is no excuse I can think of. A mitigating factor, perhaps. But no excuse.
If this woman doesn't change her mind, soon, everyone in the community should make her life miserable -- for the rest of her life.
You scare me.
I can only hope I am never a match for any DNA database for involuntary organ/cell donation that involves you.
And BTW, "She" isn't "murdering" anyone.
Anymore than I would be murdering you, if you happened to require a kidney transplant, I was the sole exact genetic match, and I refused to donate one of my kidneys to you.
If we don't feed the world, we are "in effect" killing those who are hungry.
After all, we have the food.