Oh, I see, then it's OK to have a mistress that you shamelessly parade around in public while you're still married.
Why don't you show me where I said that? What I have said is that it's quite a different thing to have a public estrangement and be living separate lives under the same roof when one meets, falls in love and decides to remarry then it is to cheat on an unsuspecting wife who thinks the marriage is a good one.