[presently no screen name]

It looks good on paper but in reality that may not be so. A CEO of a firm I worked for many+ years ago said after his third marriage - it's always the ones with 'marriage issues' that have pointed their finger at me.

He said he noted that in his own circumstances and those of his friends, those who were unhappy themselves seemed most peeved and those that had a great marriage where there to support them both. And those that were 'secretly' cheating, discreetly, asked "since you are high profile aren't you afraid of backlash, gossip and how it will ruin your finances'. To them he said, 'if I lived my life because I was afraid of anything or anybody, I wouldn't be as successful as I am - besides I'm more creative and thus make more when I'm happy'. I tell you, he was the most pleasant person to work for in the midst of the 'whiney' grumps!

[wideminded]

Very instructive story.

[panthermom]

I think you really have alot of nerve with your snarky insinuation. I am disgusted by cheating on your spouse, I don't care if you hate your spouses gut. You are a spineless sneak if you cheat. Get the dang divorce. I have been happily married for 17 years, I don't have marriage issues. I find that anyone who is so selfish, that they would humiliate their families to be dishonest. If you can screw over your kids, anybody else would be a piece of cake.