As a military MOM - I'm certain that I did NOT miss your point..... No one needs Edwards to show up ANYWHERE tomorrow
except his wife & children...
I was a military mom too. Our daughter-in-law could sure have used the comfort and support of our son when their first child died in the womb, but he had to soldier-on. There are many soldiers serving right now who's families are facing illnesses and other personal sorrows. Anyhow, there is no need to have an argument over this. Some people choose to try to keep their lives as normal as possible, some can't or choose not to. I won't judge any of them for what they decide is best for their family. It really is none of my business.
Thank you for your son or daughter's service. :)