[gidget7]

No. I would make it clear and in as loving a way as possible, that I did not support what he was doing in his life. Much as I would someone who was committing adultery. I would also make it clear that approval and love were not the same thing, and that I indeed did love him very much, but cannot support these decisions.

I was put in a situation where I was called upon by a cousin to attend a bridal shower for her, during a pregnancy where she intentionally became pregnant with no intention of marrying the father. I love the child, and welcomed it, as it wasn't the childs fault, I could not condone her actions in having it out of wedlock.

[gidget7]

sorry, that was a "baby shower"