With the admissions of adultery by him, I smell a Letter of Reprimand or even an Article 15 in Oefelein's future (unless he is outside of the USAF jurisdiction being assigned to NASA).
Either way, his career should be over. This was a no-no no matter how you look at it.
Sorry, but he is NAVY, and it isnt a no-no, even if he 'did her'.