Perhaps it is you who should seek help. Obsession is not a healthy state of mind, particularly when it is driven by irrational hatred.
Please, please, please tell me why it is hateful to be wary of someone who has had affairs (like it or not it does say something about character), is pro-choice (but personally against abortion, except in the case his daughter needed/wanted one), does not believe in the freedom to bear arms (except of course for hunting, which btw is not the basis for the 2nd amendment), and made HIS city a sanctuary city for illegals. These are very important issues to alot of people, it has nothing to do with being hateful.