I have this feeling about Donna Hanover. I know another person who can't attend things for his kids when his wife is there. And she says all these awful things about him and the kids tell him when he sees them. Bitterness can be horrible.
You know my ex? She tries alot of those things. It doesn't work, though, because I love my kids and will do anything for them. They are headstrong, and make up their own minds, and choose to ignore their mothers mudslinging, thankfully. I don't care what the ex says, I will continue to go to every event of theirs i can make, and the big ones, I'll move mountains to make sure I attend.
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Well, that's what counts. Feelings.