In a cultural sense, absolutely. I suspect that most clueless posters here are generally kind and decent when dealing with family and friends. So far so good.
When transferring "feel good" sentiments to the political arena, let's not confuse political words with dictionary words. Conservatism means something entirely different in politics.
And sadly, in the real world, kindness and common decency in politics will relegate you to a footnote in history, if you're lucky, and to the dustbin --- if you're not.
You write a thoughtful post. Thanks. I think Reagan set a good example - you can deal with political opponents without compromising your principles. When he said to Mondale - "I won't make a big deal of your youth and inexperience" he really was funny (I now I didn't get the quote exactly right) - but it didn't *make fun* of Mondale - and the debate was essentially over at that point. When President Bush labeled Kerry as a flip flopper - he didn't cross the line - like both Kerry and Edwards did.
I do understand and agree that in politics you need to respond and respond quickly - and that politics ain't bean bag - but I think that true wit beats ridicule.