The pity is that they are all wonderful people. But her mind was set against them while she was pregnant. She and the doctors kept looking for problems, preparing to abort them if necessary.
She never got to bond with them before they were born. Sadly, it shows now.
I just hope that when they have kids they can create a different mind set.
I guess I should add that I would see those sorts of emotional issues, magnified by many magnitudes if we ever set about deliberately creating 'designer children' as a society.
What do we do if a kid with frizzy hair sneaks through?
Who gets to define what is acceptable and what is a fault worth dying for?
Will we have retroactive abortions?
Who is wise enough at 20 or 30 or even 40 to know what traits to aim for and what to avoid?
I'll leave it all in God's hands. I love surprises. :-) That's why I have 4 children, and they still surprise me ever day! LOL