Understandable, perhaps our disagreement is over the word "desire". Would you say Paul was wrong when he described that he found himself doing the evil that he loathed rather than the good he wished to do? I do not have the singular focus self discipline and drive of Paul and he had problems. How about you? Does this mean one should give up the resisting of temptation and sin? Never. But it also suggests we should not be quick to over simplify and condemn only because we have no temptation in an area that someone else struggles with. Hopefully I'm wrong, but that is the impression I took from your comment(s).
No condemnation from me. I am very compassionate and understanding of those affected with SSA. However, I will also state the chosen behavior of this attraction is wrong. We are called to judge actions right or wrong just not to judge the individual to the results of those actions...i.e. to hell. This is what Christ meant by judging others. We must stand up for what is right and against what is wrong.