What is scarier is that some parents actually help by buying the clothes, the music, etc. that will help them achieve this.
I sat in a driver's license bureau once, waiting my turn for the test, when a group of "ladies" in front of me, with children in tow, actually commented on the program on the television, "I can't believe they're watching this - it's making me miss Jerry Springer".
No, we aren't supposed to judge but we should certainly discern. And that discernment/judgment line is very fine.
There were high school classmates of my daughter's whose fathers bought them breast implants as a HS Graduation gift here in the allegedly conservative Cincinnati suburbs.