That's it.
Do you really believe this? Spend all the time in the world with them? Humble to the point of thinking he is nothing and she is everything? You've bought into the myth, my friend.
A woman doesn't want a doormat who will kiss her ass and spend every waking moment with her. How boringly predictable. Where's the challenge? Where's the excitement? You bought into the male role myth and trust me, it's a myth. Women want us to be men. If you've ever seen a woman swoon over some dirt bag who treats her like garbage, a woman who will do almost anything to keep him in her life, then you know that what you wrote about is a myth.
She may tell you that the myth is what she wants, she may even believe it...but, when she sees and feels attraction for a real man, a man who may not fit your myth in any way shape or form, then get out of her way. You will not be able to stop her from feeling primal attraction for him, no gift you can buy for her, no amount of kissing her butt is going to do anything more than turn her off and she won't be looking back.