I think I see what you're saying, but once again there is as yet no proof that a 'gay gene' exists, so nobody is
born gay [that we know of, as of yet.]
You are correct, nobody is born gay. Or, they are as much as people are born attracted to big breasted women or men with big biceps.
What I'm saying is that we have this perfectly ephemeral issue, who someone is attracted to, and the homosexual advocates tell us that is an immutable characteristic of the person. In fact, a quote from this article we're discussing says it's hurtful to tell them they may have been born wrong.
On the other hand we have this perfectly physical issue, whether someone has a penis or a vagina, and the same community tells us they can be born wrong and need a change.
I just don't get it.
Actually, I do. It's about validating people's feelings, whether they have any basis in reality or not.
Shalom.