When a crossing guard gets hit by a car, do you charge the children with murder because they are the ones who made them do their job?
You can't be that stupid.
If a freeman or policeman dies in the line of duty at an arson fire, yes, the perp gets charged with murder.
Till you can grasp that fact, we'll just put the other two voices in your head on hold. Have them go offline and talk to each other.