Ron and Nancy were actually friends with, gasp, gay people. They had some over to the WH and everything.
Maybe it's because Ron used to be in the show biz or something, but they actually ate dinner with gay people a few times.
I know that probably disturbs you, but most of us just think of it as something called life.
She [Nancy] became close friends with Katharine Graham, publisher of the Washington Post, having been introduced by their mutual friend Truman Capote
Im pretty sure the Hollywood decorator Nancy loved was gay