So what it really gets down to for you is the money. You can justify forcing people to live by your values and decisions on what they must and must not do because you just see $$$$$ signs? Stay out of my private life.
metmom, nobody is forcing you to do a thing. The order specifically permits people to be idiots.
Yes, it shifts the burden on you to affirmatively declare yourself to be an idiot, but I'll bet you can handle that. Just check the box.