Then I defer to your knowledge. I did read that incompetent cervixes can start dilating in the 13th week, but it wasn't in a medical journal. I lost two babies to miscarriage myself, and in the online forums I've been on, there were a few women who had substantial bleeding that resolved, or found out that they had large clots under the placenta, but still went on to have healthy babies. What is the term for that kind of bleeding?
Mrs VS
These "cops" should be in jail. They violated department policy as well as basic human decency.